American Society today has developed it’s own unique problems. Commonly I blame ignorance for the problems that modern day Americans face everyday. This is a catch all excuse for what is ailing us. I would like readers to take time to think out what I am trying to express in this and the following blogs. It is meant to draw attentions to things that I have yet to find people focusing their efforts on, maybe I am just blind to those working to fix this problems, if this is the case please feel free to tell me.
Problem #1: Labeling a person as Unique but treating them the same as everyone else.
I hyperactive child is labeled as having a server chemical imbalance, when in fact each person is biologically different from everyone else. A common exercise I use to show that people could be very different, is the way we see colors. Red, White, Green and Blue are all different wavelengths of color. Your eye which is made up of cones and rods pick up each one of the colors and sends them to your occipital lope through a series of electronic passage ways that were established and maintained throughout your life. From childhood you are told that one wavelength is blue and an other one is red. Your mind will see the same wavelength, but it may see it different then your own mother. You are both looking at the same wave length and calling it by the same name but what you see could very well be very different. I see a wavelength and it always looks like one color; you see the same wavelength and it looks like a different color, then the one I see but we call it the same. The point of this example is that if the colors are very different but we call them the same, we will not accept that we are different.
Hyperactivity is simply acting more then the ‘norm’. First off if people are all different then there would be a median not a ‘norm’. Second, hyperactivity can be caused by an number of things, but it is all treated in a similar manner. Sugar, which is in fruits and candy bars, could be in too high of a concentration for the child. Caffeine, which is commonly found in everyday items like bread (please wait for the problem on food before taking dietary action), could be in a high concentration. People react differently to different foods, they even act differently to the same food at a different time. Another causes could be stress, too much sleep, not enough sleep, domestic problems, emotional problems (normally suppression, not an actual disorder.) or under-stimulation (your child is not using all of his/her brain at that point.)
The treatment is medicate and label. Medicating is something I have a few qualms with personally, past experiences have shown that it is quickly prescribed and most people are the post-FDA trials. People are biologically different; the cause and proper treatment of a ‘disorder’ will require more then 40 minutes in the line at the pharmacy once a month.
Some doctors tell you that medication is just a treatment for the effects, but most of the time it is done improperly or the person/ people involved are more worried about being late so they miss or forget that part. Change of diet, talking to see if there is a problem, change of sleep patterns, assessing the level of difficulty and your child’s comprehension rate and setting exercise routines are things that should be addressed, if only to be an additive to the medication.
The overlaying problem with the system in place: People who are labeled with a disorder tend to live their life to the point where the label becomes all they can do. ‘disorder’ is a strong word and it has a lot of negative meanings attached to it. Which sounds worse to you ‘Johny has a mental disorder’ or ‘Johny has a hard time paying attention in class.’
Many problems of children do not get addressed because it makes the parent look bad. Yeah there is a good chance that your childs ‘disorder’ is caused by something you, or the other adults in your child’s life, did. There is even more of a chance that if the problem goes without being addressed that it will be passed on to your grandchildren. Either the same emotional problems, or an emotional problem based on the repression of emotional response to your emotional problem.
Most suffer from emotional problems, most are to ignorant to discuss it and find a solution to it.
-NK